This post begins and ends in silence. What emerges in between is a little noise about a problem and seeking a solution for this problem.
Or, seeking a way out of the repetition of apparent problems and solutions, that is called a life. Silence all around. Continue reading →
What is Relationship? If you look at it from the “No two people ever met,” perspective (from Byron Katie), it gets stranger and stranger, but perhaps only better and better.
Whether it is relationship with family members, friends, coworkers or lovers, is there an element of defend and protect, or cherish and keep? Both of these interchangeable stances create the intractable difficulties we experience in all our relationships. Is it true that “Hell is other people?” Or, if you take out the judgment, expectation, fear, and all our assumptions about who all these other people are, what’s left?
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